For Those Who ... Are Dreaming, ...Are Struggling, ...Are Expecting, ... Are Having
The Christmas season is the most wonderful time of the year. Christmas time is mysterious. Christmas time is unforgettable. Christmas time is glowing, glittering, sparkling, soothing, healing, and inspiring. Every moment of this time is gorgeous. Every moment of this time is sparkly. Every moment of this time is wonderful. Christmas time is the time when all your emotions are turned into sparkling diamonds inside your soul. Any glance given at somebody during this time of year has just a little bit more meaning. Any curled smile during this time of year has just a little bit more meaning. Any word whispered during this time of year has just a little bit more meaning. Any thought appeared in your mind during this time of year has just a little bit more meaning. Any invitation card during this time of year has just a little bit more meaning. Any passionate embrace during this time of year has just a little bit more meaning. Any gift given during this time of year has just a little bit more meaning.
Christmas time is the time when you feel absolutely different. Christmas time is the time when you feel your time different. Christmas time is the time when you feel your life different. The wisdom that it holds and the heartfelt remembrances that it carries, the defining moments that will change your life and the tipping points that will inspire your soul. The plot twists that you aren’t prepared for, how you will rewrite your personal story to keep it fascinating, and how you will edit it to make it more about you than anyone else. Christmas time is the time when the vivid moments that makes it glitter, and the dark moments that introduce you to all shades of black and how you learn to blend it with shades of ivory color to make it taupe–colored. Every painful experience now is faded and forgotten. Your anguish, your sorrow, your confusion, your embarrassment, your failures, your anger, your sufferings are swept away. Everything is left in the previous year.
Before the first week of December comes to a close, many places are adorned with garlands and gold glittery balls. The cold winter air flows are scented with Christmas spicy fragrances and expensive perfumes. Even if the winter may not be your favorite season, Christmas time does bring you sweet memories, a sense of relaxation and pure inspiration that no other season brings. It’s the most wonderful time of the year … for yourself, it’s the most wonderful time of the year … for your dreams, and it’s the most wonderful time of the year … for your wishes…
For Those Who Are Dreaming…
As Christmas season draws near again, let this Pre–Christmas moments include in your Christmas wish list only those dreams, which you do want to be in your reality. If you are alone, let this Christmas season to be the time to find your significant one to fall in love with. If you are dreaming about having the small bundle of joy, let this Christmas season to be mysterious time to expect the gorgeous Christmas gift, your little one. May your 2018 Christmas be full of love and magic and may your heart on December 25th be full of brand new remembrances.
For Those Who Are Struggling…
with Infertility
Maybe, when walking or driving past glowing strands of jewel–toned sparkling Christmas lights, you feel sudden déjà vu and sudden heartache because the previous Christmas was not mysterious and wonderful time and you or you both were struggling with infertility last year. And your struggles failed. You are confused, embarrassed and anxious. This heartbreak was the hardest time you have ever experienced. Last Christmas entails your tears, screams, and whispers. And you decided that when the next Christmas rolled around there would be no gifts. But remember, even the darkest, the most intimidating, and the most frustrating moments will pass. Even if the hope wouldn’t be able to glow as strongly as it glowed last Christmas still there is the hope. The hope is inspiring. Let this Christmas season to be started with inspiration. Let this inspiration to turn in something soothing, something wonderful, something warm, something passionate, and something gorgeous. Let these gorgeous eyes, delicate words, and passionate embraces inspire your utmost dreams and give you enough strength to cope with frustration. Never give up. Every Christmas is different, every Christmas gift unfolds little by little, and this Christmas may be yours, this Christmas may bring you the little one.
For Those Who Are Struggling…
with Miscarriage or with Recurrent Miscarriages
When you lose your little one so close to you, how could anything ever be the same again? How could you think about gorgeous Christmas moments? How could you forget that excruciating pain? How could you stop thinking about that? How could you breathe? How could you glance? How could you hear? How could you hold the conversations? How could you smile? How could you believe in yourself? While the Christmas season is a magical time, it should be noted what is lost. You desired the most to have the baby. But something went wrong. Something that had to be prevented or something inevitable. You lost yourself. Nights of struggling with anxiety. After those days of struggling with depression. Days of bursting into tears. Days of screaming. Days of curling up on the floor and crying. Days of sleeping. Days of waiting. Days of thinking and hoping. This Christmas season is near and you notice every small bundle of joy curled up or hugged tightly, you notice every child in a store, every little one walking down the streets and ask yourself why it had happened to you? Where is your failure? Is there the hope that one day you would have your loved little one? Let this Christmas season give you a hope. Hope does not disappoint. Hope is having faith in what seems impossible. Let this hope inspire you to continue your struggle. And let this Christmas bring your small bundle of joy. Let this Christmas glow help you to cope with anxiety and depression. Let this Christmas glitter soothe your sufferings and wipe your tears. Let this Christmas magic release you from that excruciating pain and allow you to breathe. Let this Christmas flows make your conversations with your beloved full of delicate words and delicate moments. Believe in yourself. This Christmas, please, promise yourself to love. Promise yourself to forgive. Promise yourself to embrace all of your feelings. Remember, you never alone in your darkest days.
For Those Who Are Expecting…
the Little One
Do you wonder about your small bundle of joy curled up inside of you? Are you nervous about your due date? Worrying this Christmas time how everything would be? Let this Christmas time help you to cope with your worries. You should not feel like a bundle of nerves. When the moment comes, everything will be as it should be. So, let this Christmas be something very special time for you. Let this Christmas wipe away your anxiety. Let this Christmas inspire the love and harmony. Let this Christmas leave only sparkling remembrances about it. Let this Christmas be overwhelming. Let this Christmas be glittering. Let this Christmas bring you wonderful gifts. Let this Christmas bring you your beautiful little one!
For Those Who Are Having…
The first Christmas with your gorgeous little one will be the most wonderful time because your small bundle of joy is the one who makes it so special and will make it so special year after year. Last Christmas brought you your little one. And you do love this time because of the vividness of this season with its gleaming lights, the blend of scents of chocolate, vanilla, cinnamon and pine, the Christmas melodies, the Christmas songs, the sparkling envelopes… And your imprinted memories of your previous Christmas!
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year